Monday, June 9, 2008

Discipline the Children

~Discipline the Children~

Parents are the greatest role model for their children.

Its the duty of every parent to set values and discipline their children. Discipline does not mean being strict or hitting the child. But it means to make them understand what is right and needs to be done by them and handling all the issues that are imporatant for them.

Both the parents should sit and make the child understand together. Differences in views, of the parents may cause the child a lot of confusion so it is utterly important that first of all, both the parents sit and discuss the views that have to be presented to the child, so that the child can act upon it with utmost ease and comfort. Understanding the moods of children and then making them understand is very important. Both the parents have to have respect for one another, this helps children to accept the views and respect both equally. Discipline means 'teaching'. Not screaming or shouting at them but teaching them. So that they can learn and to make them learn anything the children should be at peace with both the parents and that peace has to be created by the parents among themselves.

Parents are responsible for raising wonderful children, so their should be mutual understanding between them,which comes from sharing and having conversations, discussing problems and spending time together. So parents influence your children positively, build up their confidence level and teach them the right things in life. Let them see you encouraging one another, while you encourage them and see the results for yourself.

Stay happy, peaceful and blessed.

Contributed by: Anju Jethwaney

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